Reality San Francisco · Generosity Initiative
Reality SF Donor Development Bootcamp Manual
Herzog Foundation Leadership Development Series  ·  Donor Development Bootcamp with Zach Clark  ·  The workbook, session by session, applied to Reality San Francisco and the 2049 Vision Generosity Initiative  ·  Companion to the Reality SF Donor Development Dashboard
Funding our vision. Forming our people. We go first.
Bootcamp · Aug 2026 Zach Clark · Herzog Foundation Applied to Reality SF
A Theology of Giving (draft) · made · called · formed
We are made for generosity, called to generosity, and formed by generosity.
We are made for generosity · the one-line version
God is a generous Creator who made us in His image.
“The earth is the Lord’s and everything in it.” — Psalm 24:1
What it means · from the draft theology of giving

God is Creator and Owner of all things: He did not create out of obligation or need but out of who He is, and all of creation, including our lives and all that we have, is a gift from God before it is anything else. God has created us in His image and for His glory (Genesis 1:26–27), so we reflect His generosity outward (Genesis 12:2); giving is not an optional add-on but an essential part of our created identity and flourishing, and sin’s distortion (self-preservation, hoarding, greed) must be resisted (1 Corinthians 10:31). Giving is an act of worship before it is ethics: before asking what we should do with our money, we ask who we are honoring with it (Matthew 6:24). In giving we reveal where our trust lies, and we return what is truly His (1 Chronicles 29:14).

What it looks like at Reality

The offering framed as worship inside the liturgy. First Fruits Sunday opening the year. A Rule of Life that names generosity as part of who we are, not a program of the church.

Invitation · newcomers and guests

“Reality is a church that believes generosity is part of being human: we are made in the image of a generous God. If you want a church that talks about money reverently and honestly, as worship and not as a fundraiser, you will find it here.”

Formation · members and community groups

“This month in our Rule of Life: made for generosity. One question for your group: before what should I do with my money, whom am I honoring with it? Everything we have is a gift before it is anything else.”

Development · givers and partners

“We are not asking because we have a need. We are asking because God owns it all and made us to reflect His generosity. Your gift returns what is His, and it is worship before it is anything else.”

We are called to generosity · the one-line version
His Word informs and directs how we give.
“Honor the Lord with your wealth, with the firstfruits of all your crops.” — Proverbs 3:9
What it means · from the draft theology of giving

We are stewards, not owners, of all that we have; we are “entrusted” with everything, not a percentage (1 Corinthians 4:2). We are instructed to give out of what we have been given: first fruits (Proverbs 3:9–10) and the tithe (Nehemiah 10:37) were regular, thoughtful ways of displaying trust in God’s provision and investing in the community of God’s people. God’s Word informs and directs our giving: in both Testaments, support for God’s work is a regular and joyful practice; Jesus affirms the tithe but ties it to justice and mercy (Matthew 23:23), and Paul applies the principle to supporting the work of ministry (1 Corinthians 9:13–14; 1 Timothy 5:17–18), alongside generosity to those in need inside and outside the church. God’s grace motivates our giving: not guilt, but a joyful response to the gospel, since Jesus, though rich, became poor for our sake (2 Corinthians 8:9).

What it looks like at Reality

Regular, proportionate giving taught plainly. First fruits and tithe named without apology. Benevolence and Justice & Outreach funds alongside the General Fund. Grace, not guilt, in every appeal.

Invitation · newcomers and guests

“We teach what Scripture teaches: first fruits, a proportionate tithe, and generosity to those in need. Not as a rule to keep but as a call to answer, out of what we have already been given.”

Formation · members and community groups

“Called to generosity: this quarter’s formation content walks your household through first fruits, the tithe, and giving to those in need, with one practical step: decide a percentage together, give it first, and give the rest gladly.”

Development · givers and partners

“Scripture calls us to give out of what we have been given, and grace is the motive. We are inviting you into a proportionate, sacrificial commitment: not the same amount as anyone else, but one that reflects what you have been entrusted with.”

We are formed by generosity · the one-line version
Giving is one of the ways God shapes our hearts and lives.
“For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” — Matthew 6:21
What it means · from the draft theology of giving

In giving, we realign our hearts: consumerism is a rival discipleship, and what we do with what we have is not only an expression of an already-formed heart but an act of forming. In giving, we resist greed (Luke 12:15–21; 1 Timothy 6:10) and cultivate contentment and trust (Hebrews 13:5). In giving, we reflect God, who supplies the seed the sower sows (2 Corinthians 9:6–11), so that He gets the glory. In giving, we relate to the church as partners in the work of the gospel (Philippians 1:5): not passive spectators but active participants, our gifts an investment as true partners.

What it looks like at Reality

Formation content in every community group during the initiative year. Leaders committing first. Reports that treat givers as partners in the work, not as sources of funds.

Invitation · newcomers and guests

“We believe giving forms us. At Reality you will be discipled in generosity the way you are discipled in prayer and Scripture, and you will be treated as a partner in the work, not a spectator.”

Formation · members and community groups

“Formed by generosity: here is what your partnership did this year in the city, and one question for your household: where is our treasure, and where is our heart following it?”

Development · givers and partners

“You are a partner in the work of the gospel in San Francisco, not a source of funds. The most important thing that happens in this initiative happens in you; the second most important is what it builds for the city.”

Donor Development Bootcamp
Herzog Foundation workbook · applied to Reality San Francisco and the 2049 Vision Generosity Initiative
Taught by Zach Clark  ·  August 2026  ·  Applied with the giving, financial and initiative data in the Reality SF Donor Development Dashboard
Reality
San Francisco
2049 Vision
All-time offerings
$73.4M
2011 – July 2026 · 6,489 households
Households to retain
1,381
gave in 2025 · renew at $8.2M
Pacesetter tier
130
lifetime $100K+ · $28.2M together
Launch Sunday
8/22/27
the one fixed date in the initiative
How to read this manual
The bootcamp, applied to a church about to go first.

Development is the discipline of growing real relationships with people, helping them see what God is doing, and challenging them to the impact only they can have. For Reality SF that means: a message built on the 2049 Vision and the theology of giving; a prospect plan with a Pacesetter tier of 130 lifetime $100K+ households on top of the four lists; the thank → report → ask → follow-up cycle laid over the five movements of the Generosity Initiative; a weekly score card for the 51% of the Finance Pastor’s role now dedicated to the work; and talking points that an elder can open in two minutes. Every tab carries the workbook’s teaching and its Reality SF application; the three parts of the draft theology of giving at the top of the page are the hallway language.

Key takeaways
  • Use the tabs as chapters; each opens with a summary and key takeaways.
  • The theology-of-giving strip carries the draft text and recruitment, nurturing and donor scripts for each of its three parts.
  • Blue cards are the Reality SF application; white cards are the workbook.
  • Numbers come from the Reality SF Donor Development Dashboard.
  • Everything marked draft is decided at the September 14–15 retreat.
Table of contents
Sessions and page numbers · click a title to open the tab
SESSION 1Unlearn What We Think We Know About Fundraising
Session 1 resets the vocabulary and the posture. Development is a discipline of relationships, not a campaign for money.
7
SESSION 2Grow Significant Giving Step by Step: Articulate Your Vision and Vision Profile
Session 2 gives the work a structure: a development plan is a development message plus a prospect plan.
13
SESSION 3Unleash Your Hidden Capacity to Grow Giving
Session 3 names what caps a school’s giving and starts the face-to-face engine that lifts the cap.
25
SESSION 4Learning the Core Skills to Grow Giving
Session 4 teaches the four core skills as one journey: thank, report, ask, follow up. Thanking comes first and matters most.
33
SESSION 5Grow Significant Giving Step by Step
Session 5 turns the prospect plan into four lists with numbers on them: retain, regain, recruit, and non-donors.
41
EXTRAORDINARY GIVERS PANELExtraordinary Givers Panel
Extraordinary givers explained how they think, decide, and what they want from the leaders who invite them in.
45
SESSION 6Lead Yourself Before You Wreck Yourself
Session 6 turns from the donors to the leader: lead yourself, or the plan wrecks on you.
47
SESSION 7Determine Your Strategic Priorities
Session 7 builds the strategy page: who we serve, the value we provide, our economic model, and three to five priorities.
61
SESSION 8Clarify Your Steps
Session 8 turns the four steps into an account: what was done with everything given so far, and what the next steps will cost.
69
SESSION 9Finalize Your Talking Points
Session 9 writes the talking points: who we are, how we got here, what we are working toward, and the steps.
75
SESSION 10Bringing It All Together
Session 10 asks the only question left: can this be done?
81
Reality San Francisco · who we are, the vision, the theology of giving
The raw material for the development message (Session 2)
Who we are
A community following Jesus, seeking renewal in our city. Named from Colossians 2:17 (“the reality is found in Christ”), part of the Reality family of churches, planted from Carpinteria; Dave and Ashley Lomas came to San Francisco in 2009 with a core team of 13, and the first service was January 10, 2010. Rooted at 1325 Valencia Street since 2021. Formed by a Rule of Life of eight practices, four inward (Scripture, fasting, Sabbath, solitude and silence) and four outward (hospitality, community, vocation, generosity).
The 2049 Vision
Two hundred years after William Taylor preached from a whiskey barrel in Portsmouth Square: mission initiatives, a Counseling Center, and a Center for Christian Thought and Practice. Institutions that outlast the booms and busts. Approximately $20M, decided at the September retreat.
A theology of giving (draft)
Made for generosityCalled to generosityFormed by generosity
Tagline
Funding our vision. Forming our people. We go first.
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Session 1
Unlearn What We Think We Know About Fundraising
Workbook p. 7  ·  Applied to Reality SF
Reality
San Francisco
2049 Vision
Summary
Session 1 resets the vocabulary and the posture. Development is a discipline of relationships, not a campaign for money.

The session opens with Psalm 89:11 and the stewardship frame: the school is not yours, the donors are not yours, and the donors’ dollars are not theirs either. From there it retires two words (fundraising, need) and replaces them with two others (development, plan), names the four challenges every leader faces, and lands on a working definition: the discipline of growing real relationships with people, helping them see what God is doing, and challenging them to the impact only they can have.

It closes with the economic model of excellent development (total giving − total development expense = margin) and the claim that development is the language of leadership.

Key takeaways
  • All of our problems are people problems.
  • Say “development” and “plan”; never “fundraising” or “need.”
  • Giving is the fuel that drives us forward.
  • Total giving − development expense = margin. Know your margin.
  • Development is the language of leadership, so it is the leader’s work.
The workbook, and the Reality SF application
Workbook
What the workbook says

Avoid these two words: Fundraising and Need. Use Development and Plan. Development is the discipline of growing real relationships with people, helping them see what God is doing, and then challenging them to have the impact that only they can have. Giving is the fuel that drives us forward. The economic model: total giving − total development expense = margin. Development is the language of leadership.

Applied to Reality SF
The words and the posture, at Reality SF
$8.2M2025 offerings from 1,381 households
~$180K2025 development-adjacent expense: grant writer, merchant fees, Generis strategy day
≈ 45 : 1giving to development-expense margin before the initiative team

Vocabulary. The church already has its own rules: offerings, not giving; invested, sent and provided, not spent; a Generosity Initiative, not a capital campaign; and a draft Theology of Giving that says giving is worship before it is ethics. Herzog adds two more words: development, not fundraising; plan, not need. The pre-read already says it: “We are not asking because we have a financial need.” We are made for generosity.

The economic model. Total giving − total development expense = margin. Reality SF has raised $8.2M a year on almost no development expense; the initiative adds Generis ($84K), Clever, Phil Bowdle and 51% of the Finance Pastor. That investment is what turns a strong giving culture into a repeatable discipline.

The people problem. Not scarcity: 69% retention, 388 five-year households, 130 lifetime $100K+ households. The people problem is that the church has never asked its top households for a proportionate, multi-year commitment face to face. Session 3 and Session 5 are about that.

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Session 2
Grow Significant Giving Step by Step: Articulate Your Vision and Vision Profile
Workbook p. 13  ·  Applied to Reality SF
Reality
San Francisco
2049 Vision
Summary
Session 2 gives the work a structure: a development plan is a development message plus a prospect plan.

The six learning objectives for the bootcamp are laid out (clarity, message, prospect plan, relationship skills, disciplines, feedback). A development message is built in three layers: your vision and vision profile, the key questions a giver will ask, and giving-driven steps. Mission is how we do what we do; vision is why; core values name the culture.

The session also settles which business you are in. You can only raise money for two things, saving lives or changing lives, and a church is in the changing-lives business, which sets the tone of every ask: formation over rescue, invitation over emergency.

Key takeaways
  • Development plan = development message + prospect plan.
  • Message = vision & vision profile → key questions → giving-driven steps.
  • Mission is how; vision is why; values name the culture.
  • A church is in the changing-lives business.
  • A development message is a communication plan.
The workbook, and the Reality SF application
Workbook
What the workbook says

A development plan has two parts: development message and prospect plan. You can only raise money for two things, saving lives or changing lives. Message structure: vision and vision profile → key questions → giving-driven steps. Mission = how we do what we do; vision = why.

Applied to Reality SF
Reality SF’s development message, filled in
Who we are · how we do what we do
A community following Jesus, seeking renewal in our city. Named from Colossians 2:17 (“the reality is found in Christ”), part of the Reality family of churches, planted from Carpinteria; Dave and Ashley Lomas came to San Francisco in 2009 with a core team of 13, and the first service was January 10, 2010. Rooted at 1325 Valencia Street since 2021. Formed by a Rule of Life of eight practices, four inward (Scripture, fasting, Sabbath, solitude and silence) and four outward (hospitality, community, vocation, generosity).
Vision · why we do what we do
The 2049 Vision: two hundred years after the first church was planted in this city, to build institutions that outlast the booms and busts: mission initiatives, a Counseling Center, and a Center for Christian Thought and Practice.
A theology of giving (draft)
Made for generosityCalled to generosityFormed by generosity

A church is in the changing-lives business: formation over rescue, invitation over emergency. The full message (vision profile, key questions, giving-driven steps) and the prospect plan are drafted on the Development Plan tab and the Reality SF Donor Development Dashboard.

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Session 3
Unleash Your Hidden Capacity to Grow Giving
Workbook p. 25  ·  Applied to Reality SF
Reality
San Francisco
2049 Vision
Summary
Session 3 names what caps a school’s giving and starts the face-to-face engine that lifts the cap.

Three limiters decide how far you can go: over-reliance on fundraising events, the perceived cost of tuition, and the number of families. The event test is blunt: if an event does not net $200K it is probably not making money once staff time is counted, because event dollars are the lowest-ROI dollars a school raises.

The engine that replaces events is the first meeting: request it and promise not to ask, ask for their vision for the school, share a plan verbally and ask for advice, then take notes and ask who else you should be talking to. The assignment is to make one to three of those calls.

Key takeaways
  • Limiters: events, perceived cost, number of families.
  • An event that nets under $200K is the lowest-ROI money you raise.
  • Tuition covers the day to day; giving creates the new thing forward.
  • First meeting: no ask; their vision, your plan, their advice, their referrals.
  • Make 1–3 calls this week.
The workbook, and the Reality SF application
Workbook
What the workbook says

Three limiters of capacity: fundraising events, perceived cost, number of families. If an event doesn’t net $200K it likely isn’t making money once staff time is counted. The face-to-face engine: request a meeting and promise not to ask → ask for their vision → share a plan and ask for advice → take notes and ask who else. Make 1–3 calls.

Applied to Reality SF
Reality SF’s capacity, with the numbers
0fundraising events: the church has none to un-learn; giving happens in worship
3.07%giving rate of household income (Generis) · 4.07% would add $2.3M a year
1,593engaged households · ~200 attend and do not give

Limiter 1 · Events. Reality SF does not run event fundraisers, which is a strength; the risk is the opposite one, a church that has never done face-to-face development at all. The engine has to be built, not redirected.

Limiter 2 · Perceived cost. For a church the “cost” objection is “the church already has a lot”: $8.2M a year, a $23M building, $3.6M in investments. The answer is the vision and the debt: $10.2M of notes with the first maturing in 2028, and three institutions that no operating budget will build.

Limiter 3 · Number of families. The base is large (1,381 giving households across 90+ Community Groups) and the top is thin (60 households at $25K+). The floor for the initiative is the Pacesetter tier: 130 households have given $100K+ over their lifetime, $28.2M together. The church’s own answer to the limiter is rootedness: farmers who stay, not miners who leave.

The face-to-face engine · first calls. “I’m planning for the future and learning how we can grow generous giving; I’d like your input, and I’m not going to ask you for anything.” Start with the ten lifetime households who gave in both 2025 and 2026 and have been with the church for a decade; then the elders and board, who go first anyway.

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Session 4
Learning the Core Skills to Grow Giving
Workbook p. 33  ·  Applied to Reality SF
Reality
San Francisco
2049 Vision
Summary
Session 4 teaches the four core skills as one journey: thank, report, ask, follow up. Thanking comes first and matters most.

The donor journey is a cycle, repeated twice a year (January–July, August–December) across face-to-face, small-group and large-group strategies. Thanking has a workflow (call, letter and receipt, personal thank-you, surprise and delight) and a payoff: 40% average retention rises to 50% when the thank-you is face to face, while 80% of donors say they never hear from the organizations they give to.

Reporting must call attention to itself and runs 80% past, 20% future. There are four ways to ask (direct, range, straightforward, stretch), and the right one serves the giver, not the asker. Follow-up is a system: next action, memo of understanding, calendar, long-lasting list, updates and encouragement.

Key takeaways
  • If there was only one thing: call. Thank them, invite them.
  • Reporting is not reporting if you do not call attention to it.
  • Four ways to ask; the hardest one is the one that serves the giver.
  • Every visit ends with a next action and a memo of understanding.
  • Think seasonally: Reality SF’s season is December, September and November.
The workbook, and the Reality SF application
Workbook
What the workbook says
1st · most importantThankingCall · letter · personal thank-you · surprise & delight.
2ndReportingBefore any request, a report; call attention to it; 80% past, 20% future.
3rdAskingDirect · range · straightforward · stretch.
4thFollow-upNext action · memo · calendar · list · updates.

40% retention on average; 50% when the thank-you is face to face; 80% of donors say they never hear from the organizations they give to. Two passes a year through the cycle across face-to-face, small-group and large-group strategies.

Applied to Reality SF
The journey and the cycle, at Reality SF
69%retention 2024→2025 vs 40% average, 50% face to face
25% · 37%of 2025 offerings in December · in Q4: the season is real
1,381households to thank before the initiative asks anything

Thanking, this fall. Thanking is where the theology starts: every gift is returned to the Owner of all things, so the thank-you names Him, not the church. Every 2025 household gets the four-step workflow before Leaders First: a call or note within the season (elders and board take the 60 at $25K+), the contribution statement reframed as a thank-you, a personal thank-you for the Pacesetter tier, and one surprise (a story from a church plant the gift funded).

Reporting, before asking. The 2025 impact report (offerings, what was sent, the roof and sanctuary) in September, and a “did you receive it?” call to every $5K+ household. 80% what God did; 20% the 2049 Vision.

Asking in season. Year-end 2026 for renewals and the ~200 attending non-givers; Leaders First in spring 2027; Vision Nights in summer; Launch Sunday 8/22/27 and the Commitment Sundays in the fall; year-end 2027 as the second Q4 cycle.

Follow-up as a system. Every Pacesetter conversation produces a memo of understanding, a calendar date and a place on the follow-up list in Planning Center; Michael’s pledge infrastructure tracks commitments. The full calendar overlay is on the Development Plan tab.

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Session 5
Grow Significant Giving Step by Step
Workbook p. 41  ·  Applied to Reality SF
Reality
San Francisco
2049 Vision
Summary
Session 5 turns the prospect plan into four lists with numbers on them: retain, regain, recruit, and non-donors.

Donors to retain are listed highest to lowest with a target amount, range or commitment for each, totalled low and high. Donors to regain are listed highest to lowest going back five to seven years, with total potential. Donors to recruit come from people new to the community, people who attend experiences, referrals, and the non-donor list. Non-donors are either released or recruited; the rule is to stop training people not to give, and to provide only quality communication and experiences.

Reality SF’s lists, filled from Planning Center: 1,381 households to retain (renew at $8.2M; existing large givers are cultivated through the cycle, not asked for more), 711 to regain ($2.0M potential), ~200 attending households to recruit, and a Pacesetter tier of 130 lifetime $100K+ households.

Key takeaways
  • Retain: highest to lowest; renew, cultivate, do not stretch.
  • Regain: five to seven years back; total the potential.
  • Recruit: new, attended, referred, non-donor list.
  • Stop training people not to give.
  • The plan is only as good as the four lists.
The workbook, and the Reality SF application
Workbook
What the workbook says
Donors to retainHighest to lowest; a target for each; low and high totals.
Donors to regainHighest to lowest; go back 5–7 years; total the potential.
Donors to recruitNew, attended experiences, referred, from the non-donor list.
Non-donorsRelease or recruit; stop training people not to give.
Applied to Reality SF
Reality SF’s four lists, filled in
1,381households to retain · renew at $8.2M · cultivate, do not stretch
711to regain · $2.0M potential · 248 at $1K+ worth $1.9M
~200 + 254to recruit: attending non-givers · first-time households already in 2026

Retain. The top 30 of 2025, highest to lowest, are on the dashboard with the cultivation cycle beside each name. The renewal target is the 2025 gift; the initiative commitment is a separate, proportionate, multi-year conversation.

Regain. Planning Center holds fifteen years, so “go back five to seven years” is possible here: 711 households gave in 2023–24 and nothing since. Some moved; the rest get the call.

Recruit. The connection pathway (Welcome to Reality, community groups, First Fruits) is the recruiting engine; the initiative’s formation content is the invitation.

Non-donors. Release event-only and benevolence-only records after two seasons; recruit every group member with the report and the vision, never a bare appeal. Stop training people not to give; teach that we are called to generosity, out of what we have been given, with grace as the motive.

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Extraordinary Givers Panel
Pat and Greg · four questions
Workbook p. 45  ·  Applied to Reality SF
Reality
San Francisco
2049 Vision
Summary
Extraordinary givers explained how they think, decide, and what they want from the leaders who invite them in.

Giving is never a question of if, only when, how much, what and where. Decisions run through a process of passion, volunteer value and dollar value, with relationships as the pivot; givers support a few organizations with both time and money and segment their giving into small dollars, recurring or annual dollars, and “this is where our hearts are” dollars.

What helps: data (“in God we trust, for everyone else bring data”), impact defined as the change from entering to exit, passion, and relationships. What does not help: being asked to “tell me the XYZ story” instead of being met with real curiosity.

Key takeaways
  • You always spend your allowance: the question is where.
  • Money is like manure; piled up, it stinks.
  • Bring data; define impact as entering-to-exit.
  • Leaders get people to do what they normally won’t do on their own.
  • Be the “where our hearts are” organization for a few.
The workbook, and the Reality SF application
Workbook
What the workbook says
“You always spend your allowance; it is never a question of if, rather when, how much, what and where.”
“In God we trust; for everyone else, bring data.” · Impact = the change from entering to exit.

Decisions run through passion, volunteer value and dollar value; giving is segmented into small, recurring and “where our hearts are” dollars. Unhelpful: “tell me the XYZ story.” Be curious.

Applied to Reality SF
What the panel means for Reality SF

Be the “where our hearts are” church for a few hundred households. Givers segment their giving into small, recurring and heart-tier dollars. Reality SF already holds the recurring tier for 559 households (57% of 2025). The initiative asks the Pacesetter tier to make the church their heart-tier commitment for three years.

Bring data; define impact as entering-to-exit. The church can report what a giver wants: households served through benevolence, churches planted and residencies funded, a counseling center’s first-year clients. The initiative’s reporting should show change in people, not activity counts.

Passion and relationships before the ask. Volunteer value first: Stewardship Committee, Pacesetter hosts, Vision Night tables. Money follows time.

Curiosity over pitch. The first meeting opens with their story of the church, not the church’s story of itself.

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Session 6
Lead Yourself Before You Wreck Yourself
Workbook p. 47  ·  Applied to Reality SF
Reality
San Francisco
2049 Vision
Summary
Session 6 turns from the donors to the leader: lead yourself, or the plan wrecks on you.

The session asks where a leader’s value comes from, names the leader’s responsibilities (results, strategic priorities, projects) and the school’s return on the leader (financial cost, financial impact, people impact). It contrasts an unhealthy stress response (anxiety → inaction → less energy → avoidance) with a eustress response (growth planning → action → more energy → endurance), lists five danger zones, and asks how you know when you are burnt out.

Then it gets practical: a weekly score card of four development numbers, saying “no” with grace and style, the 6×6 (six things in six weeks), a model week with protected discretionary blocks, and a renewed inner dialogue read three times a day for six weeks.

Key takeaways
  • Your value as a leader comes from God-given talents, not from the ministry.
  • Emotions follow the will in a healthy response; the will follows the emotions in an unhealthy one.
  • Danger zones: the altar of ministry, unhealthy emotional fixes, isolation, feel-a-little-better habits.
  • The leading indicator of your goal is your follow-up list.
  • The 6×6 is your work as a leader, not a to-do list.
The workbook, and the Reality SF application
Workbook
What the workbook says

Your value as a leader: where does it come from? Responsibilities: results, strategic priorities, projects. Danger zones: the altar of ministry, unhealthy emotional fixes, isolation, feel-a-little-better habits. The weekly score card: meeting blocks held, meetings scheduled, face-to-face this week, names on the follow-up list. The 6×6. A model week. An inner dialogue read three times a day.

Applied to Reality SF
Self-leadership, with the initiative on the score card
51%of the Finance Pastor’s role dedicated to the initiative; operations delegated to the finance team and Jason
3face-to-face meetings a week is the target through Leaders First
~408names for the follow-up list: Pacesetter tier, 2025 top 30, lapsed $1K+

The score card. Meeting blocks held for six months (~60); Pacesetter meetings scheduled for the next six weeks (15); face-to-face this week (3); households on the follow-up list. Reviewed every Friday with Jess.

The 6×6 after the September retreat. Thank the top 130 personally; mail the impact report; hold the first ten first-meetings; build the follow-up list; regain calls to the lapsed $1K+; draft year-end 2026.

A model week. Non-discretionary: Sunday services, ELT/CLT rhythms, Stewardship Committee, Generis calls. Protected: three meeting blocks, a Friday score-card hour, one “fills” block. The danger zone named in the pre-read is real: “51% is a commitment, not an estimate.”

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Session 7
Determine Your Strategic Priorities
Workbook p. 61  ·  Applied to Reality SF
Reality
San Francisco
2049 Vision
Summary
Session 7 builds the strategy page: who we serve, the value we provide, our economic model, and three to five priorities.

Strategy is how we do what we do and who we serve; it is choices. The page has three layers: vision, mission and values with a vision profile and 3–5 priorities on top; then who we serve and who we don’t, the value equation (what you get over what you pay) and the economic model (margin per X). The Chick-fil-A example makes the value equation concrete: $10.82 is what you pay; touching the table, connection and fresh flowers are what you get.

For a school the equation is expenses divided by students against tuition, and the disciplined-thought buckets are the 3–5 headings of work the school exists to accomplish, each starting with an action verb because donors fuel action.

Key takeaways
  • Strategy is choices: how we do what we do, and who we serve.
  • The value equation: what you get ÷ what you pay.
  • Margin per X is the economic model; for a church, margin per giving household.
  • 3–5 priorities, each an action verb that reflects the why behind the how.
  • “We are a business whose ministry is education.”
The workbook, and the Reality SF application
Workbook
What the workbook says

Strategy is choices: who we serve and who we don’t; the value we provide (what you get ÷ what you pay); our economic model (margin per X); 3–5 priority buckets that begin with action verbs. “We are a business whose ministry is education” becomes, for a church, “a ministry that has to be run like a faithful institution.”

Applied to Reality SF
Reality SF’s strategy page, first draft
$5,7652025 ministry cost per giving household
$1,250median household offering · mean $5,964
3.07%of household income · 4.07% is +$2.3M a year

Who we serve. Disciples and seekers in the Mission and the wider Bay Area who want a church that forms people, stays rooted in the city and builds for it. Who we don’t: a consumer audience, a satellite of somewhere else.

The value equation. What you get: formation in a Rule of Life, a community, ~$900K a year sent into the city and the world, a building open to the neighborhood, and soon a counseling center and a center for Christian thought. What you pay: whatever you decide to give, median $1,250.

Our economic model. Margin per household: $5,765 of cost against $5,964 of mean offering; positive in 2025 ($511K net), negative through July 2026 before the Q4 cycle. Debt per giving household: $7,358.

Priority buckets (action verbs). Form · Send · Heal · Engage · Free. The retreat will trim and rename them.

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Session 8
Clarify Your Steps
Workbook p. 69  ·  Applied to Reality SF
Reality
San Francisco
2049 Vision
Summary
Session 8 turns the four steps into an account: what was done with everything given so far, and what the next steps will cost.

Each step builds on the previous one. Step 1 is done: since 2011, $73.4M has been given to Reality SF (through July 2026). The way to account for it is plain: “this is what we did with the total amount we have received; here are our strategic priorities; these steps will cost X and move us toward the mission and vision in 2–5 years.” The sizing rule: if Step 2 is double or more than Step 1, break it into smaller steps. Steps get done as quickly as people pray and give.

Reality SF’s history in numbers: first service January 10, 2010; offerings from $678K in 2011 to $8.24M in 2025; 1325 Valencia Street since 2021; a new roof and sanctuary in 2025; 1,381 giving households.

Key takeaways
  • Step 1 is done: $73.4M given, 2011 – July 2026.
  • Account for it: this is what we did with what you gave.
  • No step should be double the last.
  • Investment buckets: families → aid; faculty → teachers; facility → expansion.
  • Steps are done as quickly as people pray and give.
The workbook, and the Reality SF application
Workbook
What the workbook says

Each step builds on the previous. Step 1 is done; in the past 5–7 years we have seen $___ given. Account for it: “this is what we did with the total amount received; here are our priorities; these steps will cost X.” If Step 2 is double Step 1, break it into smaller steps. Steps get done as quickly as people pray and give.

Applied to Reality SF
Reality SF’s Step 1, accounted for
$73.4Mgiven 2011 – July 2026
12×growth in annual offerings, $678K → $8.24M
$23.2Mbuilding and land on the books; roof and sanctuary renewed in 2025

Step 1 · 2010–2026 · done. With $73.4M given, Reality SF went from a plant that first met on January 10, 2010 to a rooted institution: seven years of Building, seven of Establishing, 1325 Valencia Street bought in 2021 and renewed in 2025, 15% of the General Fund sent into the city every year (~$900K in 2025), 90+ Community Groups, 1,381 giving households, 69% retention, a clean audit. That is the account of what was done with what was received.

Sizing Steps 2–4. No step should double the last: Step 1 was $73M over fifteen years, so a ~$20M multi-year initiative is well inside the rule. The elders decide the goal and fund approach on Sept 14–15; the steps on the Development Plan tab are drafted to that shape.

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Session 9
Finalize Your Talking Points
Workbook p. 75  ·  Applied to Reality SF
Reality
San Francisco
2049 Vision
Summary
Session 9 writes the talking points: who we are, how we got here, what we are working toward, and the steps.

The talking points follow the message structure: mission, vision and profile; how we got here; what we are working toward; and the giving-driven steps with Step 1 complete, a long-term goal, progress to date, an immediate milestone, and specific projects with total cost. The first-meeting call script on p. 88 is the vehicle.

Reality SF’s version: an elder or board member opens as a member, then who we are, the theology of giving, how we got here ($73.4M since 2011, $8.2M last year), the 2049 Vision (~$20M across mission, a Counseling Center and a Center for Christian Thought), and the steps from Leaders First to fulfillment.

Key takeaways
  • Open with an elder or board member’s own giving story.
  • Six talking points, in order, two minutes.
  • How we got here: January 10, 2010; Building, Establishing, Flourishing; 1325 Valencia; $73.4M since 2011; 1,381 households.
  • ~$20M to build: mission, a Counseling Center, a Center for Christian Thought.
  • End with the question, not the ask.
The workbook, and the Reality SF application
Workbook
What the workbook says

Talking points: our mission, vision and profile → how we got here → what we are working toward → giving-driven steps (Step 1 complete; long-term goal; progress to date; immediate milestone; specific projects with cost). First-meeting call script on p. 88; “here is what I heard you say” memo after every meeting.

Applied to Reality SF
Reality SF’s talking points · the two-minute version
1 · An elder or board member opens as a member“I have given here for ___ years; this is what I have watched God do with it.”
2 · Who we are“A community following Jesus, seeking renewal in our city.” Colossians 2:17. Farmers, not miners. Generosity is one of the eight practices of our Rule of Life.
3 · The theology of givingMade for generosity · called to generosity · formed by generosity.
4 · How we got hereFirst service January 10, 2010; Building, Establishing, Flourishing; $73.4M since 2011; $8.2M last year from 1,381 households; 1325 Valencia since 2021; roof and sanctuary in 2025; 15% of every General Fund dollar sent into the city.
5 · What we are buildingThe 2049 Vision: mission initiatives, a Counseling Center, a Center for Christian Thought and Practice; ~$20M; freedom from $10.2M of debt.
6 · The steps and the questionLeaders first in spring 2027; Launch Sunday 8/22/27; fulfillment through 2029. “Would you share your thoughts on what we have planned?”

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Session 10
Bringing It All Together
Workbook p. 81  ·  Applied to Reality SF
Reality
San Francisco
2049 Vision
Summary
Session 10 asks the only question left: can this be done?

The closing session brings the message, the prospect plan, the yearly cycle, the score card and the talking points together and puts the question to each leader. For a church about to ask its people for the most significant act of generosity in its history, the answer starts with the leaders who go first.

Key takeaways
  • Can this be done?
  • Exodus 3: “Who am I?” answered by “I will be with you.”
  • Galatians 6:9: do not grow weary of doing good.
  • Keep moving forward.
The workbook, and the Reality SF application
Workbook
What the workbook says

Bring it all together: the message, the prospect plan, the yearly cycle, the score card, the talking points. Can this be done?

Applied to Reality SF
What Reality SF takes home
1A message: the 2049 Vision, the theology of giving, how we got here ($73.4M), three institutions, four steps.
2A prospect plan: 1,381 to retain through the cycle, 711 to regain, ~200 to recruit, and a Pacesetter tier of 130 lifetime $100K+ households.
3A calendar: the donor journey laid over the five movements, AVP, First Fruits, mid-year and year-end.
4A discipline: the score card, the follow-up list, the 6×6, three protected meeting blocks.
5A script: elder intro, six talking points, the first-meeting call, the memo of understanding.
6A conviction: we go first.

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Development Plan
Reality SF’s development message and prospect plan, drafted from the workbook
Built from Sessions 2, 5, 6 and 7  ·  the live version with the household list is on the Reality SF Donor Development Dashboard
Reality
San Francisco
2049 Vision
Summary
The plan, in one paragraph.

The message is who we are, the 2049 Vision, the theology of giving, the key questions a giver will ask, and four giving-driven steps (Step 1 done: plant, root and build the house; Step 2 Foundation and Leaders First; Step 3 the public season; Step 4 fulfillment). The prospect plan is the Pacesetter tier on top of retain, regain, recruit and non-donors, each with a next step, and the donor journey laid over the initiative calendar.

Key takeaways
  • Message: vision → key questions → giving-driven steps.
  • Pacesetters first, then the four lists.
  • Existing large givers renew at level; the initiative ask is separate.
  • The cycle runs twice a year over the five movements.
  • Score card every Friday.
Reality SF’s development message, drafted from the workbook structure
A development plan has two parts: a development message (vision and vision profile, the key questions a giver will ask, and giving-driven steps) and a prospect plan. This tab is the message, drafted from the 2049 Vision document, the Generosity Initiative pre-read, the Q4 2025 board brief and the numbers in this dashboard. Everything labeled draft stays draft until the September 14–15 retreat.
Part 1 · Development message · click a question or a step to open it
Your vision and vision profile
Who we are: “a community following Jesus, seeking renewal in our city” (the vision), on mission “to make disciples of all nations, teaching them to obey everything Jesus has commanded” (Matthew 28:19–20); first gathered January 10, 2010, rooted at 1325 Valencia Street since 2021; not miners but farmers (Jeremiah 29). Vision: the 2049 Vision, three institutions that outlast the booms and busts: mission initiatives, a Counseling Center, a Center for Christian Thought and Practice. Theology of giving (draft): we are made for generosity, called to generosity, and formed by generosity (click any of the three at the top of the page for the full text and scripts). Profile in numbers: 1,381 giving households, $8.2M in 2025, $73.4M all-time, 1,557 average weekly attendance, retention 69%.
Key questions
What is the 2049 Vision, and why that year?
2049 is the two-hundredth anniversary of William Taylor preaching from a whiskey barrel in Portsmouth Square, the first church planted in San Francisco. The vision funds three institutions meant to outlast the booms and busts: mission initiatives, a Counseling Center, and a Center for Christian Thought and Practice. Roughly $20 million, over a multi-year initiative with Generis.
Why now?
The elders have been carrying a vision past the current seven-year plans; Generis is engaged; the initiative window captures two high-giving Q4 cycles; and two facility notes are outstanding (a ~$7.5M primary mortgage, now $8.16M on the books, and a $2M interest-only note) with the first maturing around 2028. Church health is strong: 1,381 giving households in 2025, retention at 69%, offerings up 15% year to date.
What does my gift actually change?
Offerings of $8.2M funded $900K in grants and direct assistance last year (church plants and organizations $507K, benevolence $218K, missionaries and residencies $175K), a staff of pastors and ministers, and a building on Valencia Street with a new roof and sanctuary. The initiative adds a counseling center, a center for Christian thought, expanded mission, and freedom from $10.2M of debt.
Is the church durable?
2025 closed with $8.32M of income, $7.96M of expense including $761K of depreciation, and net income of $511K. As of July 31, 2026 the church holds $3.56M in cash and investments and $22.7M in net fixed assets against $10.2M of mortgages; net assets are $16.0M. The 2025 audit (Capin Crouse) carried a clean opinion.
Who else is in?
1,381 households gave in 2025; 388 have given every year since 2021; 130 households have given $100K or more over their lifetime with the church. Staff, staff spouses, elders and board commit first, in spring 2027, before anyone in the congregation is asked.
How did you get here?
Planted from Reality Carpinteria: Dave and Ashley Lomas moved to San Francisco in 2009 with a core team of 13, and the first service was January 10, 2010 at the Swedish American Hall. Seven years of Building (Everett Middle School from 2014), seven of Establishing (the Rule of Life, rootedness, 90+ Community Groups), and now Flourishing. Offerings grew from $678K in 2011 to $8.24M in 2025. In 2021 the church bought the former Bethel Church at 1325 Valencia for $15M with a $10M Cass Bank loan and a $5M building campaign; the roof (Raise the Roof) and sanctuary were renewed in 2025. Fifteen percent of the General Fund is sent every year to Justice & Outreach, benevolence and church planting, and two-thirds of households give again the next year.
Giving-driven steps
Step 1 · 2010–2026Build, establish, and root the housecomplete
Step 2 · Fall 2026 – Summer 2027Foundation and Leaders Firstin progress
Step 3 · Fall 2027The public seasonnext
Step 4 · Late 2027 – 2029+Fulfillment and expansionhorizon
Step 1 · 2010–2026 · complete
Build, establish, and root the house
1,381 giving hhstudents
$73.4M given since 2011giving
Goal

From a church plant to a rooted institution: the Building years (2010–2017), the Establishing years (2017–2024) with the Rule of Life and the call to rootedness, and a home at 1325 Valencia. Farmers, not miners.

What giving funds

Sixteen years of ministry; 1325 Valencia Street bought in 2021 ($15M: $10M Cass loan, $5M building campaign) and renovated; the 2025 roof ($352K) and sanctuary ($621K); 15% of the General Fund sent to Justice & Outreach, benevolence and church planting (~$900K in 2025).

The ask

Thank and report to the 1,381 households of 2025 before the initiative asks anything; renew every one at their level. Made for generosity: the thank-you names the Giver behind every gift.

Milestones · the roadmap
  • 2009: Dave and Ashley Lomas and a core team of 13 move to San Francisco; first service January 10, 2010
  • 2010–2017 Building; 2014 Everett Middle School; offerings $678K → $4.7M
  • 2017–2024 Establishing: Rule of Life, rootedness, 90+ Community Groups; 2021 the church buys 1325 Valencia
  • 2025: Raise the Roof and sanctuary renewed; $8.24M in offerings from 1,381 households; retention 69%
  • Clean 2025 audit; $3.56M cash and investments; Flourishing begins
Step 2 · Fall 2026 – Summer 2027 · in progress
Foundation and Leaders First
Staff · elders · board · Pacesettersstudents
Goal set Sept 14–15 · lead giftsgiving
Goal

Settle the theology of giving, the vision pillars, the goal amount and the fund approach; then have leaders commit before anyone is asked, and secure Pacesetter commitments that set the pace.

What giving funds

The silent phase: lead commitments from staff, spouses, elders, board and Pacesetter households, tracked in Planning Center with pledge infrastructure from the finance team.

The ask

Pacesetter conversations: proportionate, sacrificial, multi-year commitments from the 130 lifetime $100K+ households and the 2025 top tier. Called to generosity: first fruits, a proportionate gift, grace as the motive; leaders go first.

Milestones · the roadmap
  • Sept 14–15 retreat decides goal, pillars, fund approach
  • Sept 21–23 all-staff 2027 planning; Initiative named as thematic goal
  • Master calendar built with Generis by Oct 20
  • Spring 2027: Pacesetter Retreats #1 and #2, two rounds of 1:1 follow-up
  • Summer 2027: Vision Nights; Advance Commitment Night early fall
Step 3 · Fall 2027 · next
The public season
Whole congregationstudents
Commitment Sundays · Q4 2027giving
Goal

Invite the whole church into the vision across an eight-Sunday arc, from Launch Sunday to First Fruits, with leaders already on the board.

What giving funds

Commitments from the congregation toward the one-fund goal: mission initiatives, Counseling Center, Center for Christian Thought, and debt retirement as the elders decide.

The ask

A proportionate sacrifice from every household: “not the same amount, but a gift that costs something.” Formed by generosity: commitment cards for adults, students and children, with formation content in every Community Group.

Milestones · the roadmap
  • Launch Sunday 8/22/27
  • Emphasis Sundays with formation content in every group
  • Commitment Sundays; Results Reveal
  • First Fruits / Big Give Day
  • Year-end 2027: the first of two Q4 cycles inside the initiative
Step 4 · Late 2027 – 2029+ · horizon
Fulfillment and expansion
A church formed in generositystudents
Two to three years of fulfillmentgiving
Goal

Turn commitments into cash and cash into institutions, while the church’s ordinary generosity rhythms (Year-End, mid-year, First Fruits) keep growing.

What giving funds

Counseling Center opened; Center for Christian Thought launched; mission initiatives funded; the Cass note (maturing ~2028) and the $2M Ngate note addressed.

The ask

Stewardship, not asks: report quarterly, thank personally, tell the impact stories, and invite late joiners without pressure. Partners in the work (Philippians 1:5), not sources of funds.

Milestones · the roadmap
  • Pledge tracking and contribution statements from the finance team
  • Quarterly reports to board and congregation
  • First note maturity handled in the 2028 window
  • Counseling Center and Center for Christian Thought operating
  • A culture of generosity that other urban churches copy
Roadmap · the giving-driven steps on a timeline
The five Generis movements folded into four steps · dates are season-level; the one fixed date is Launch Sunday 8/22/27
2010–2026
Step 1 · Build, establish, and root the house
Students1,381 giving hh
Giving$73.4M given since 2011
AskThank and report to the 1,381 households of 2025 before the initiative asks anything
Fall 2026 – Summer 2027
Step 2 · Foundation and Leaders First
StudentsStaff · elders · board · Pacesetters
GivingGoal set Sept 14–15 · lead gifts
AskPacesetter conversations: proportionate, sacrificial, multi-year commitments from the 130 lifetime $100K+ households and the 2025 top tier
Fall 2027
Step 3 · The public season
StudentsWhole congregation
GivingCommitment Sundays · Q4 2027
AskA proportionate sacrifice from every household: “not the same amount, but a gift that costs something
Late 2027 – 2029+
Step 4 · Fulfillment and expansion
StudentsA church formed in generosity
GivingTwo to three years of fulfillment
AskStewardship, not asks: report quarterly, thank personally, tell the impact stories, and invite late joiners without pressure

Goal amount and fund approach (traditional, one-fund, or hybrid) are decided at the September 14–15 retreat; the ~$20M figure is from the 2049 Vision document and is treated as draft until then.

Talking points · the two-minute version (Session 9)
Elder or board member as a member → who we are → the theology of giving → how we got here → what we are building → the steps → the question
1 · An elder or board member opens as a member“I have given here for ___ years. This is what I have watched God do with it.”
2 · Who we are“A community following Jesus, seeking renewal in our city.” Named for Colossians 2:17: Jesus is the ultimate Reality. Farmers, not miners: we settle in, plant roots and cultivate long-term fruit. Generosity is one of the eight practices of our Rule of Life.
3 · The theology of givingWe are made for generosity: God is a generous Creator and Owner of all. We are called to generosity: His Word directs how we give, and grace is the motive. We are formed by generosity: giving realigns the heart and makes us partners in the work.
4 · How we got herePlanted from Carpinteria; first service January 10, 2010; seven years of Building, seven of Establishing, now Flourishing. $73.4M in offerings since 2011; $8.2M last year from 1,381 households; 1325 Valencia since 2021, roof and sanctuary renewed in 2025; 15% of the General Fund sent into the city every year; a clean audit.
5 · What we are buildingThe 2049 Vision: mission initiatives, a Counseling Center, a Center for Christian Thought and Practice; approximately $20M; freedom from $10.2M of facility debt.
6 · The steps and the questionLeaders first in spring 2027; public season from 8/22/27; fulfillment through 2029. “Would you share your thoughts on what we have planned, and your reaction to what we are asking people to consider?”
Strategy · the value equation for a church (Session 7)
What you get ÷ what you pay · margin per household · candidate priority buckets
Cost of ministry per giving hh
$5,765
2025 expense ÷ 1,381 households
Median household gives
$1,250
mean $5,966 · 3.07% of income (Generis)
At 4.07% of income
$9.3M
+$2.3M a year (Generis assessment)
Debt per giving hh
$7,358
$10.2M across two notes
Form
a people in the likeness of Jesus, generosity included
Send
church plants, residencies and mission into the city and the world
Heal
a Counseling Center for a city in a mental-health crisis
Engage
a Center for Christian Thought and Practice in the city of ideas
Free
the house from $10.2M of debt before the first note matures
Prospect plan and calendar
Reality SF’s prospect plan · four lists, a Pacesetter tier, a weekly score
Session 5 says the prospect plan is four lists: households to retain (highest to lowest, renewed at their level through the cycle), households to regain, households to recruit, and non-donors. For the initiative, a fifth list sits on top: the Pacesetters who commit first. Existing large givers are cultivated through thank → report → ask → follow up and asked to renew, not to increase; the initiative ask is a separate, proportionate, multi-year conversation.
Retain
1,381 households
renew at $8.2M · cultivate, do not stretch
Regain
711 lapsed
$2.0M potential · 248 at $1K+ worth $1.9M
Recruit
254 new in 2026
1,557 weekly attenders vs 1,381 giving hh · ~200 attending households not yet giving
Pacesetters
130 + 531
lifetime $100K+ ($28.2M) · lifetime $25K–100K
The four lists and the Pacesetter tier · click to open
1,381
Retain
1,381 households gave in 2025 · renew at $8.2M
+

Cultivate, do not stretch: the renewal target is the 2025 gift, through thank → report → ask → follow up. The initiative commitment is a separate, proportionate, multi-year conversation. The 60 households at $25K+ (first fifteen shown):

Household2025
Anonymous X$596,225
Tim Goh$166,614
Benevity Matching Gifts Program$163,675
Business Rockwater Foundation$150,000
Jim Hemerling$135,000
Japheth Jin-Ting Wong$119,774
Business Made to Flourish$116,500
Seth Andrzejewski$100,000
Christina Cho$78,018
Nate Robert$76,000
Olaoluwa Okelola$73,000
Brian Strubbe$69,332
David Benac$67,000
William Tang$65,926
Alex Vander Linde$65,000
711
Regain
711 lapsed · $2.0M potential
+

Gave in 2023 or 2024, nothing in 2025 or 2026. 248 at $1K+ are worth $1.9M. Planning Center holds fifteen years, so the workbook’s “go back five to seven years” is possible here. Script: “we missed you; here is what changed; here is where we are going.” The full list is in Part 2 below.

254
Recruit
254 new households in 2026 · ~200 attending non-givers
+

254 first-time households have given $298,939 so far in 2026 (405 new in 2025). Average weekly attendance of 1,557 against 1,381 giving households means roughly 200 households attend and do not yet give; the connection pathway (Welcome to Reality, Intro to Community, First Fruits) is the recruiting engine. The largest new households this year:

New household, 2026Given so far
Natalie Bye$85,442
Adam Allevato$17,400
Business Crane Data Centers, Inc.$15,000
Daniel Ferguson$11,800
Jennifer King$10,000
Alex Woo$8,000
Jamie Har$7,260
James Chong$7,000
Janise Roh$6,735
Ophelia Ding$5,950
130
Pacesetters
130 lifetime $100K+ · 531 at $25K–100K
+

The 130 households at $100K+ lifetime have given $28.2M together, 38% of all-time. Staff, spouses, elders and board go first (Leaders First, spring 2027); these households are the second circle, met in two Pacesetter retreats and two rounds of 1:1 conversations. The top 25 are in Part 1 below.

Part 1 · The Pacesetter list (Leaders First, spring 2027)
Pacesetter candidates · top 25 households by lifetime offerings
130 households have given $100K+ over their lifetime with the church, $28.2M together (38% of all-time). Staff, spouses, elders and board go first; these households are the second circle.
Household (lifetime, highest → lowest)LifetimeSince20252026 YTD
Anonymous X$1,648,7862020$596,225$392,802
Benevity Matching Gifts Program$1,395,4742013$163,675$126,024
Seth Andrzejewski$1,325,0622011$100,000$100,000
Faya Peng$935,4082012$54,500$28,500
Amy Wagner$513,9602024
Olaoluwa Okelola$505,0002019$73,000$28,000
Sean St Germain$450,2652019
Chris Luo$405,4372011$4,000
Robert Paton$367,5002013
Business Fidelity Charitable Gift Fund$354,1302013
Business Rockwater Foundation$350,0002022$150,000
Gregory VandenBosch$349,6892017$50,000
Brian Strubbe$349,4082015$69,332$8,134
Jim Hemerling$345,5002021$135,000$120,500
David Roh$340,2182011$27,200$9,125
Alex Vander Linde$313,3812021$65,000$45,500
Peter Frick$309,2472018$47,740$27,532
Ryan Templin$296,1462018$63,852$62,833
David Coles$295,9962011
Heather Wilkerson$294,6532017$43,500$51,223
Ralston Clarke$291,2722013$41,216$7,500
Nate Robert$290,1522015$76,000$1,800
Amy Lin$277,6132011$5,263
John Badwick$277,0002017$36,000$21,000
Jon Lemmon$261,9002016$48,000$28,000
Anonymous records are excluded. The full lifetime ranking is on the Household List tab; sort by Lifetime to extend this list to the 130 households at $100K+ and the 531 at $25K–$100K.
Part 2 · The four lists (Session 5)
Retain · top 30 of 1,381 households that gave in 2025
Highest to lowest · renewal target = the 2025 gift, no increase asked · the initiative commitment is a separate conversation · total to renew $8.2M
Household (2025, highest → lowest)20252026 YTDLifetimeSinceCultivation cycle · thank → report → ask → follow up
Anonymous X$596,225$392,802$1,648,7862020Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Tim Goh$166,614$110$166,7242025Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Benevity Matching Gifts Program$163,675$126,024$1,395,4742013Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Business Rockwater Foundation$150,000$350,0002022Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Jim Hemerling$135,000$120,500$345,5002021Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Japheth Jin-Ting Wong$119,774$159,7772024Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Business Made to Flourish$116,500$51,500$216,5002024Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Seth Andrzejewski$100,000$100,000$1,325,0622011Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Christina Cho$78,018$31,697$199,7582016Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Nate Robert$76,000$1,800$290,1522015Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Olaoluwa Okelola$73,000$28,000$505,0002019Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Brian Strubbe$69,332$8,134$349,4082015Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
David Benac$67,000$9,000$232,9962020Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
William Tang$65,926$155,9452019Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Alex Vander Linde$65,000$45,500$313,3812021Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Ryan Templin$63,852$62,833$296,1462018Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Emily Wang$60,500$17,600$118,1002024Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Raymond Sung$58,960$100$213,6652015Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Faya Peng$54,500$28,500$935,4082012Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Barry McKenna$50,000$158,0822016Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Dave VandenBosch$50,000$50,0002025Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Susie Leupold$50,000$30,000$135,0002022Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Mike Winters$50,000$105,0002016Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Gregory VandenBosch$50,000$349,6892017Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Blake Benthall$49,858$51,1082012Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Jon Lemmon$48,000$28,000$261,9002016Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Jonathan Lopez$48,000$28,000$76,0002025Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Peter Frick$47,740$27,532$309,2472018Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Michael Byun$44,029$37,649$117,5132021Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Heather Wilkerson$43,500$51,223$294,6532017Pacesetter conversation · renew at level, multi-year if offered
Regain · top 20 of 711 lapsed households
Gave in 2023 or 2024, nothing in 2025 or 2026 · $2.0M potential at their last annual level
Household to regainLast annual giftLast gaveLifetime
Amy Wagner$513,9602024$513,960
Elaine Hsu$93,1802023$93,180
Louis Cornejo$62,5002024$62,500
Susie Leupold$50,0002024$130,000
Nicola Hemerling$40,1002024$220,100
Lillian Chien$40,0002023$101,000
Jonathan Kuo$27,2102024$65,501
Josh Yang$26,4092024$229,625
Bernard Batang$26,0712023$87,447
Michael Gorrell$25,2862023$32,278
Joyce Oshita$25,0002023$37,767
Thomas Fisher$23,2502023$51,250
Alek Linquist$22,3002024$37,300
Teryn Rikert$20,0002024$91,534
Lindsey Barnes$18,0002023$141,913
Andrea Park$15,0002024$30,000
David Kim$14,6302023$101,517
Leigh McCulloch$13,8252023$151,896
Caio Rolim$12,6622023$13,662
MeeJ Kim$12,5002023$37,800

Some will have moved away; a city church loses households to the Peninsula, the East Bay and other states every year. The call is still worth making: “we missed you, here is what changed, here is where we are going.”

Recruit
254 first-time giving households in 2026 so far · 405 in 2025 · ~200 attending households not yet giving

Average weekly attendance of 1,557 against 1,381 giving households and an estimated 1,593 households engaged (Generis) means roughly 200 households attend and do not yet give. They are recruited through experiences, not appeals: Welcome to Reality, community groups, First Fruits, and the formation content of the initiative year.

Non-donors
Who to release, who to recruit

Release: one-time event or benevolence records with no relationship after two seasons. Recruit: every household in a community group gets the report and the vision, never a bare appeal. Stop training people not to give: generosity is taught as formation, in season, with follow-up, not as a line at the end of an email.

Part 3 · Weekly score card and the 6×6 (Session 6)
Weekly score card
The four leading indicators · reviewed every Friday with Jess; the goal is the lagging one
QuestionTargetThis week
Meeting blocks held on the calendar, next six months~60 (three per week)    
Pacesetter meetings scheduled, next six weeks15    
Face-to-face meetings this past week3    
Households on the follow-up list~408    

“Show me your follow-up list. The leading indicator to meeting your goal is in your follow-up list.”

The 6×6 · six weeks after the September retreat
Six things that move the initiative, not a to-do list · click each for owner, date and how
1 · Thank the top 130
Tarik, elders, board · by Oct 31
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Personal thank-you (call or visit) to every lifetime $100K+ household before any initiative language reaches them. Board members and elders each take five; the theology leads: every gift returned to the Owner of all things.

2 · Mail the impact report
Michael, Kayla · September
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A one-page 2025 report: $8.24M in offerings, $900K sent into the city, the roof and the sanctuary, 1,381 households. Then the “did you receive it?” call to every $5K+ household. 80% what God did; 20% the 2049 Vision.

3 · Ten first meetings
Tarik · by Oct 20
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“I am planning for the future and learning how we can grow generous giving; I would like your input, and I am not going to ask you for anything.” Their vision for the church, advice on the plan, who else to talk to. Memo of understanding after each.

4 · Build the follow-up list
Jess, Michael · September
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~408 names in Planning Center with next actions and dates: the Pacesetter tier, the 2025 top 30, the lapsed $1K+. Pledge infrastructure and contribution-statement templates ready before Leaders First.

5 · Regain calls
Stewardship Committee · Oct–Nov
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248 households that gave $1K+ in 2023–24 and nothing since, worth $1.9M. Called to generosity begins with the people who once answered.

6 · Draft year-end 2026
Tarik, Tim, Kayla · by Nov 15
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Renewals for existing givers at their level; a straightforward invitation to the ~200 attending non-givers; QCD conversations before December; the offering framed as worship. The first of two Q4 cycles inside the initiative window.

Part 4 · The donor journey on the Reality SF calendar (Session 4)
The donor journey on the Reality SF calendar · Aug 2026 – Dec 2027
Session 4’s cycle (thank → report → ask → follow up) laid over the Generosity Initiative’s five movements and the church’s own rhythms: AVP, First Fruits, mid-year update, year-end
PhaseThankReportAskFollow-upPlan
MonthJourney phaseChurch and initiative calendarDevelopment actions · face to face, small group, large group
Aug 2026Thank
Aug 24 CLT working session · initiative kickoff
Aug 24 – Oct 20 master planning window
Thank-you calls to the top 130 lifetime households; board and elders take the $25K+ tier
Follow-up list built in Planning Center
Score card starts
Sep 2026Thank → Report
Sep 14–15 Elder, Board & ELT retreat: theology of giving settled
Sep 21–22 All-staff 2027 planning
Sep 23 Presentations to ELT
September: historically the second-largest month
2025 impact report mailed and called attention to: what was sent into the city (15% of every General Fund dollar)
Leaders First begins: staff, spouses, elders, board hear the theology of giving first (made · called · formed)
First ten first-meetings (no ask) with Pacesetter candidates
Oct 2026Report
Oct 20 master calendar complete
Generis on-site planning
“Did you receive our report?” calls to every $5K+ household
Regain calls to lapsed $1K+ households
Brand and theme work; Pacesetter devotional drafted
Nov 2026Report → Ask
Thanksgiving · Year-End 2026 appeal prepared
Year-end appeal: renewals for existing givers, invitation to attending non-givers
Giving Tuesday and year-end series with follow-up
Advance conversations with QCD households (over 70½) before December
Dec 2026Ask
Christmas services · 25% of the year’s offerings arrive this month
Year-end offering as worship; Sunday framing by the Formation team
Personal notes to the $25K+ tier the week before Christmas
First of the two Q4 cycles in the initiative window
Jan 2027Follow-up
Contribution statements · First Fruits Sunday
Annual Vision & Prayer (AVP) 2027 · 2049 Vision unveiled
Thank every year-end gift within 48 hours
Statements mailed with a report, not a receipt
AVP: the 2049 Vision goes public; memo of understanding after every leadership conversation
Feb–Mar 2027Thank → Ask (leaders)
Lent · Easter (March/April)
Pacesetter Retreat #1
Leaders First: staff, spouses, elders, board commit
Pacesetter Retreat #1; first round of 1:1 follow-up
Formation content in Community Groups: “formed by generosity,” the Rule of Life practice
Apr–May 2027Follow-up → Ask (leaders)
Pacesetter Retreat #2
Pacesetter Retreat #2; second round of 1:1 follow-up
Memo of understanding after each conversation; pledges logged
Regain and recruit through community groups
Jun–Jul 2027Report → Ask (influencers)
Mid-Year Update to the congregation
Vision Nights for engaged leaders and influencers
Mid-year update: what offerings did in the first half
Vision Nights (Widening the Circle)
Protect August–September; no competing initiatives
Aug 2027Ask · Launch
Aug 22 Launch Sunday
Advance Commitment Night (early fall)
Public season opens with leaders and Pacesetters already committed
Print, video, digital, lobby and microsite live
Advance Commitment Night ahead of Commitment Sundays
Sep–Oct 2027Ask
Emphasis Sundays · Commitment Sundays
Results Reveal
Eight-Sunday arc; formation content in every group
Commitment cards for adults, students and children
Results Reveal; thank-you within a week of every commitment
Nov–Dec 2027Thank → Follow-up
First Fruits / Big Give Day
Year-End 2027 · second Q4 cycle
First Fruits / Big Give Day
Year-end offering inside the initiative
Fulfillment begins: quarterly reporting, personal thanks, impact stories

Existing large givers are cultivated through the full cycle and asked to renew at their level; the initiative commitment is a separate, proportionate, multi-year conversation that begins with leaders. Dates are season-level from the Generosity Initiative Pre-Read (revised Aug 24, 2026); the master calendar is being built with Generis through Oct 20.

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Generosity Initiative
The campaign at a glance, from the Aug 2026 pre-read and vision deck
Five movements · MOCHA · 2027 seasons · Launch Sunday 8/22/27
Reality
San Francisco
2049 Vision
The Generosity Initiative · the campaign at a glance
A multi-year, whole-church generosity journey to fund what God is calling Reality SF toward. More than a fundraiser: a discipleship journey in generosity. A guided partnership with Generis. Ministry, not begging: rooted in a theology of giving, an invitation to participate in the vision, never a transaction. Everyone, in waves: leadership commits first, then key leaders, then the whole congregation. Commitments made in 2027 are fulfilled over roughly the following two to three years. Still on the potter’s wheel, on purpose: the Sept 14–15 retreat sets the foundations; until then, hold the details loosely. From the Aug 2026 Initiative Pre-Read and the CLT/All-Staff vision deck.
What is settled, and what the retreat decides · click to open
Already in motion
Settled before the retreat
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Partnership with Generis; planning underway. Public launch set: Sunday, August 22, 2027. Leadership goes first: staff, elders, board. 2027 master planning proceeds now, with margin built in.

1 · Our theology of giving
Decided Sept 14–15
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The convictions beneath every ask. The draft is at the top of this page: we are made for generosity, called to generosity, and formed by generosity.

2 · The vision pillars
Decided Sept 14–15
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What the campaign will actually fund: mission initiatives, a Counseling Center, a Center for Christian Thought and Practice, and the facility notes ($8.16M Cass, $2M Ngate) as the elders decide.

3 · The goal
Decided Sept 14–15
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How much we are raising. The 2049 Vision document says approximately $20M; the March staffing brief said $50M+. The Generis assessment says a one-point rise in the giving rate is worth $2.3M a year. Hold the number loosely until the retreat.

4 · The fund approach
Decided Sept 14–15
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Traditional, one-fund, or hybrid. The Q4 2025 board brief recommended the One Fund model, which unites operational, missional and capital giving under a single integrated campaign; fulfillment runs two or three years depending on the choice.

Five movements · click to open
1 · Foundation
Fall 2026 – Winter 2027 · Planning with Generis, the Sept 14–15 retreat, branding, leadership alignment.
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What happens: on-site and ongoing planning meetings with church leadership and Generis; the Elder, Board & ELT retreat (theology of giving, vision pillars, goal amount, fund approach); Sept 21–23 ministry department goals with presentations to ELT on 9/23; branding and theme work with Communications and partners; the 2027 master calendar built Aug 24 – Oct 20.

Development work: thank the 2025 households, mail the impact report, build the follow-up list, hold the first ten first-meetings.

2 · Leaders First
Spring 2027 · Staff, spouses, elders and board commit first; Pacesetter retreats and one-to-one conversations.
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What happens: we go first, before we ever ask the congregation. Pacesetter Retreat #1 and Retreat #2; two rounds of 1:1 follow-up conversations with Pacesetter households. The Formation team builds the Pacesetter devotional with Creative.

Development work: the Pacesetter list (130 lifetime $100K+ households), memos of understanding after every conversation, pledge tracking live.

3 · Widening the Circle
Summer 2027 · Vision Nights for engaged leaders and influencers; advance commitments.
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What happens: Vision Night gatherings for engaged leaders and influencers; early commitments that set the pace for the public season; Advance Commitment Night in early fall, ahead of the Commitment Sundays. Meg carries logistics and hospitality; Operations carries venue and setup.

4 · The Public Season
Fall 2027 · Launch Sunday 8/22/27 · An eight-Sunday arc for the whole church; the crescendo into the Formation season.
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Sunday 1 · Launch (Aug 22): the campaign revealed to the whole church with the main vision video, print piece and micro-site. Sundays 2–4 · Emphasis: teaching series with testimony videos and small-group content each week. Sundays 5–6 · Commitment: the whole congregation brings commitments, every generation, kids and students included. Sundays 7–8 · Celebration: results revealed, then First Fruits / Big Give Day to begin the giving season.

Behind these Sundays: videos, testimonies, print, web, events and volunteer teams, built in the months prior with help from every ministry. Protect August–September 2027.

5 · Fulfillment
Late 2027 – 2029+ · Commitments fulfilled over the following two to three years.
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What happens: a multi-year giving period, two to three years depending on the fund approach; stewardship communications; annual generosity rhythms (Year-End, mid-year, First Fruits); impact storytelling and reporting; quarterly reports to board and congregation.

Development work: thank personally, report quarterly, treat every household as a partner in the work (Philippians 1:5).

Who owns what · MOCHA
M · Manager
Mike Gleim, Executive Pastor
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Delegates authority; provides organizational alignment to culture, strategy and vision; holds the owner accountable at ELT to pace and quality; tone and pastoral impact of strategic decisions and messaging.

O · Owner
Pastor Tarik, about half his role
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51% of role dedicated to the initiative: ensures it succeeds end-to-end; cascades communication up (Board/ELT), laterally (CLT) and to all staff; owns the Generis relationship; financial integration and elder reporting; chairs the Stewardship Committee; tracks budget on all projects. “51% is a commitment, not an estimate.”

C · Consulted
Generis · Clever · Phil Bowdle · CLT · Stewardship Committee
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Generis: framework, milestones, donor events, gift table, Pacesetter retreat design. Clever: ministry comms coverage during Kayla’s sabbatical. Phil Bowdle: story and production. CLT (Tyler, Naomi, Kevin, Jason, Tim): how the initiative intersects their areas. Stewardship Committee: prayerful oversight of donor engagement.

H · Helpers
Jess (primary) · Kayla · Meg · Michael
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Jess Gracewski (25–35%): project lead, Generis milestone execution, donor event oversight, cascading status. Kayla (10–15%): brand, creative, production. Meg (10–15%): event logistics and hospitality. Michael (10–15%): financial reporting, pledge tracking, contribution statements. Tim (10–15%): theology of giving into formation pathways.

A · Approvers
Dave Lomas, Elders & Board
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Dave: founder and teaching pastor; final sign-off on vision and direction; content for vision, storytelling and the sermon series. Elders and Board: approve the goal amount, fund approach and major initiative decisions at the Sept 14–15 retreat.

2027 ministry seasons and the campaign
Jan – Apr 2027 · Vision
Leaders First begins: staff and Pacesetters
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Staff, spouses, elders and board commit; Pacesetter Retreats #1 and #2; two rounds of 1:1 follow-up. The 2049 Vision goes public at Annual Vision & Prayer.

May – Aug 2027 · Renewal
The circle widens; public launch prep builds
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Vision Nights for engaged leaders and influencers; advance commitments; the mid-year update; videos, testimonies, print and web built with every ministry surfacing stories of generosity and life change.

Sept – Dec 2027 · Formation
Public season and commitments; the crescendo
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The eight-Sunday arc from Launch Sunday (Aug 22) into September launches the Formation season: Emphasis, Commitment, Results Reveal, First Fruits / Big Give Day, then year-end 2027 as the first of two Q4 cycles inside the initiative.

Key dates
From the pre-read and the deck
WhenWhat
Aug 24, 2026CLT working session: initiative alignment and 2027 planning kickoff; campaign vision presented to CLT
Aug 25–26All-staff planning meetings; departmental SWOTs due
Aug 27 – Sept 10Draft goals, projects and calendars to ELT; revisions and final budget adjustments
Sept 14–15Elder, Board & ELT retreat: theology of giving, vision pillars, goal, fund approach decided
Sept 21–22 · 23All-staff 2027 strategic planning; final presentations to ELT
Oct 20Master calendar complete; staff presentations of 2027 plans
Fall 2026 – Summer 2027Foundation, Leaders First, Widening the Circle
Aug 22, 2027Launch Sunday: the public season begins
Late 2027 – 2029+Fulfillment
What this means for every ministry in 2027
Four moves while the clay is still soft
Name it in your planMake the Generosity Initiative one of your 2027 thematic goals, alongside the 2049 Vision.
Plan with the seasonsLet the campaign’s rhythm shape your calendar; it crescendos as Formation begins.
Protect the windowKeep Aug–Sept 2027 clear of competing events. Plan capacity, not just activity.
Flag capacity earlyIf a movement strains your team, say so now, while plans can still flex. Bring questions to Frank (Generis) or to Tarik.
“Fund-raising is precisely the opposite of begging.”Henri Nouwen, A Spirituality of Fundraising · “We go first.”
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